Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Fabulously SingLe

Are you desperately in need of a boyfriend? Just because you don't want to be alone anymore and your friends all have boyfriends already? If you are feeling that way, stop thinking about it. Being single doesn't mean you are alone in this world, you have your friends and family if you need company right? And you don't need to be a part of a couple just to be complete. Being single gives you a chance to love yourself, appreciate the things around you and do things that attached people cannot. It may worry you that you are still single but that is okay, we are just humans and we tend to feel insecure or maybe pathetic at times.

If you are feeling alone while your friends are cuddling with their men, don't ever think there is something wrong with you, it's just not your time to shine yet. Having a boyfriend is not an instant thing, it will take time, unless of course if you are looking for a fling not a boyfriend. But anyhow, being single means more free time to do the stuff you love without asking permission to anyone and more chances of meeting more people or maybe a totally hot guy ei!?

Single life is not the worst thing that could ever happen to you unless you see it that way. We need to be reminded that getting or having a boyfriend should comes with the right reason not with the reason that you don't want to be left out with the crowd. Reality check: There are more women who tend to be more successful because they remained unattached until they are there in the spotlight of their career. If we are in a relationship and wanted to explore things or check our options, it might be hard for us to pursue it because you don't want your other behalf to be left behind or maybe you don't want your attention to be grabbed by any other else. We need to consider a lot of things if we are attached so it's much more better to remain single while you are at it. I'm not saying you cannot achieve anything if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, it's just my way of saying, there's more to life of a single than the attached.

If you are single, enjoy it. You are not going to be single forever of course, so while you are patiently waiting for your dream man or woman, enjoy your freedom. Being single is the only way where you get to know yourself much more better and discover things that are hiding in there. You might be surprise of the things that you will see and learn. Trust me.

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