A perfect love in the right time

All of us wants to have the best perfect relationship but we know that we cannot always get what we wanted. We need to put a lot of effort and work hard to be the best that we can ever be in a relationship. Im not saying I'm an expertee or something but I just want to share my part about this thing called LOVE. We have different dreams of how we want our love stories to happen, some wants to have a fairytale story like one day a prince charming will arrive and sweeps you off your feet then bring you to a castle and marry you and you lived happily ever after. Others wants to have someone who could take them away from their miseries in life and just make them the happiest people in the world. Others only wants to have a simple story like, meeting someone that will change them into a better person or someone that could show them the true meaning of their existence. Whatever dreams we may have, it only comes down to just one thing; we just want love and to be love in return. Love is a very simple word and a very simple task, it's just the situation or the person that's making it complicated.
I only ever had one boyfriend so far, but I got my heart broken a lot of times. The first time I experience break up was one of the most hurtful experience I encountered, I thought it was the end of the world for me, I had my world revolve around him and little do I know it's bound to end soon. Too much happiness I felt then that I didn't realize there is something wrong already, I loved too much and I expected too much from him. Since that was my first time, I never thought too much is a bad thing. But then I moved on, I learned a lot of things which I'm thankful for because I know I can do better the next time I give my heart to someone. It's really true that once you fall in love, you should also try to leave a little for yourself so that if everything will not work out the way you wanted and planned it to be, it will not be hard for you to move on and let go. We also should start to love ourself first so that we can have other people to love us in return. We should also learn to let people love us in a way that they know how not in a way that we want to be because humans are not robots and loving should comes out naturally, not scripted.
Love is a very strange feeling one can ever possess,like what they say, love comes in an unexpected situations and you will never know it until you let go all the doubts and worries that you planted in your heart and mind. Love doesn't have requirements before you could say and show it, you just need to be yourself and love with all your heart and your way to go.
Some people are afraid to love because they are scared to be hurt and to be broken. I know it ain't easy having you heart broken but how can you feel the beauty of loving if you will not try. Endings are terrifying but how would we know if we are scared to start to love. Heartbreaks ain't really easy but a lot of people survive, the most important thing is that you were brave enough to let your heart love and be loved and if it's get broken, let it be, in that way we learn to deal with it and be smarter enough the next time. What doesn't kill you makes you strong so dont ever be afraid to try because you will never see the beauty of life. Getting hurt is always part of our journey, it's just a matter of surviving and learning from it.
It always makes me wonder how people handle love and how brave they are that after getting hurt, they are back on their feet again and look for another love. It always makes me smile whenever I see a couple so sweet because like what they say, even though love is not working for you for now, it is with others. I guess that's how love works, try and try until you can get the perfect love story that you had been dreaming of.
It really doesn't matter how we want our love story to happen, what matters the most is that how we were able to express our love and how we are changed because of it. To love without reason is rather perfect than loving for the sake of it. Love comes in a different package, it's up to us how we want to open it it and use it. To love is the most rewarding feeling one can ever have. If you love someone, go for it. If we end up happy or broken, it's alright, in the end what matters most is that you experienced to love and to be loved with no exceptions. And what really counts is the experiences and lessons you had learned that you can use the next time you found yourself falling in love... again......(^_^)