GOODBYES are heartbreaking... We will never know kasi when it will happen but it will bound to happen..
However "goodbyes" or "saying goodbye" are good because that means you are brave enough to accept and let go of something that is not meant to be.... And with goodbyes, this serves to be the closure so that you can start to move on. To avoid questions like, "How can I find somebody else if he did not even say goodbye?". There is a lot of things that we can find goodness in goodbye. We just need to think positive after someone said goodbye. This will end something but will open something that is much better than what you did left behind.
Share ko, there's this girl who have a bf and they fought, the guy left and did not communicate with the girl for 2 days then she found out that the bf had an accident and now is in the hospital and doctors don't know if he will survive. The bf soon died and the girl was left in sorrow, she cried and cried and was not able to move on. Years had passed, the girl was able to move on but she was not able to let go, whenever asked by people why she cannot? She answered this: "He was my everything, I did not know he will soon leave me, if I should have known then I must not had argued with him that day when he left. It's so hard for me to forget and let go, he did look me in the eye before he died, but the thing is, I did not hear him said goodbye. He took my heart with him when he closed his eyes so I cannot let him go and give my heart to someone, because he still have my heart.."
Yun nga, goodbye is somewhat will give us an okay that we need to really find someone to love and to be with.. Diba mas maganda if the other one said goodbye so that it will remind you na "oh he said goodbye na, so ayaw na niya so I need to find someone else na"... Goodbye means we have to end something because it is not working already so why go on when it will be more heartbreaking if you keep on holding on and in the long run, you'll get yourself in a much more hurtful situation..
GOODBYE is much more better than to say "HOLD ON" but you know for sure there is no hope and no chance to still go on..
Sunday, October 25, 2009
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